I personally don't know enough about the NDIS to really make a comment, but unlike most parents with children on the Spectrum, we don't use therapies to help our son. We don't use any government funding to change/help him.
We read, we listen to other adults on the Spectrum, we teach him respect and have manners and how to cope in life, but we don't change the essence of him. We don't stop him stimming or flapping, these are a part of him, these are his coping techniques, these are his happy signals. We don't force him to look people in the eye (well he pretty much does that anyway).
We are teaching him to keep thoughts in his head, but we still have a long way to go with that. We are just teaching him to be nice to people and consider their feelings, even if you have a burning desire to say, I don't like you, or I have never seen you before in my life, why are you talking to me? It is sometimes hard to keep a straight face when he does say exactly what he is thinking. Tact does get you far in life, even us NTs have to learn that!
Anyway I digress.......I just read this wonderful blog post on the NDIS and wanted to share.....Amazing Adventures.